I have a donation date

I have a date for my kidney donation: December 20. There are final confirmations and of course possibilities of needing to reschedule (e.g. if I get sick), but so far this is the date.

It’s really incredible, after over a year of consideration then tests, more conversations, research, more conversations, signing up, and even more conversations, the date is here! I am thrilled and a little scared. Thank you so much for your loving support.

Here’s what’s next:

• I’ll do the pre-operation appointment the week before. This involves some tests, instructions, and a final cross match. 

• The donation will be early in the morning on December 20. After the operation, I will spend 1-4 nights in the hospital, depending on how the recovery goes. After that, may go to my cousin’s house or home. After that, I’ll be living more independently. And that’s when I could use your help. See this post for details on the ways you can help me.

• You can sign up to help me on this spreadsheet. Please note that helping me will likely require flexibility based on how I am feeling on a day-to-day basis, my location, and my schedule. I appreciate if you’re even considering helping, and whether or not we see each other or interact directly. 

I am donating to align myself with my highest values. I’ve researched and deliberated. I’ve put my trust in people and institutions. And from here, I pray that my actions benefit the recipient and society. Thank you for following along and for your support.